How To Choose The Right Man For You
By: Susan Dunn, The EQ Coach,
Sarah Wilson, a dog trainer, was recently interviewed in a magazine article in reference to her master’s thesis which is about women and their dogs. She feels that what women are intuitively attracted to in a dog are the same things she’ll enjoy in a mate. (I’m sure this applies to men as well, but she’s studying women.) Why would you choose a live-in companion you’re incompatible with?
Wilson surveyed a lot of women and found they described their men and their dogs similarly. She described her own husband and dogs as “rugged, protective, funny and intelligent.” “I’m not a fan of fawning in man or beast,” she added.
TESTING FOR TEMPERAMENT
To find out about a puppy’s temperament she recommends stressing the animal. “Response to stress,” Wilson says, “is pretty basic – hard to change in a person or a dog.”There are those who would say when you’re stressed the “true you” comes out, but here at EQ Central, we know it’s just the “stressed you” that comes out. We recommend a long courtship so you can find out how your honey reacts to stress. It is hard to change, but it can be tempered if you’re willing to work on your EQ. We’re always in process and one gift of intimate relationships is the gift of becoming a “better you.” But it’s good to glimpse the primal state.
The good news, as well as the bad news, is that you can’t date someone long without seeing them under stress these days. (Keep in mind if you’re dating again at midlife, one of the things that makes us able to tolerate stress well is being in a stable, loving relationship. Coupled with the fact that dating itself is stressful, subtract a few points from the intensity of their stress-reaction. Men are particularly looney when unattached and can change sometimes dramatically when reconnected again. Give it time, because time will tell.)
Stress calls up the reptilian brain – the fight or flight. So let’s look at puppy options. We stress the puppy and here are some of the things it might do: .....
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Sarah Wilson, a dog trainer, was recently interviewed in a magazine article in reference to her master’s thesis which is about women and their dogs. She feels that what women are intuitively attracted to in a dog are the same things she’ll enjoy in a mate. (I’m sure this applies to men as well, but she’s studying women.) Why would you choose a live-in companion you’re incompatible with?
Wilson surveyed a lot of women and found they described their men and their dogs similarly. She described her own husband and dogs as “rugged, protective, funny and intelligent.” “I’m not a fan of fawning in man or beast,” she added.
TESTING FOR TEMPERAMENT
To find out about a puppy’s temperament she recommends stressing the animal. “Response to stress,” Wilson says, “is pretty basic – hard to change in a person or a dog.”There are those who would say when you’re stressed the “true you” comes out, but here at EQ Central, we know it’s just the “stressed you” that comes out. We recommend a long courtship so you can find out how your honey reacts to stress. It is hard to change, but it can be tempered if you’re willing to work on your EQ. We’re always in process and one gift of intimate relationships is the gift of becoming a “better you.” But it’s good to glimpse the primal state.
The good news, as well as the bad news, is that you can’t date someone long without seeing them under stress these days. (Keep in mind if you’re dating again at midlife, one of the things that makes us able to tolerate stress well is being in a stable, loving relationship. Coupled with the fact that dating itself is stressful, subtract a few points from the intensity of their stress-reaction. Men are particularly looney when unattached and can change sometimes dramatically when reconnected again. Give it time, because time will tell.)
Stress calls up the reptilian brain – the fight or flight. So let’s look at puppy options. We stress the puppy and here are some of the things it might do: .....
To read the rest of this article
Article Source: Articles Beyond Better
RSS Feed for Relationship Articles:
http://articlesbeyondbetter.com/rss/Relationships/80
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